relationship problemz! haha not me larh.. juz that lotz of frenz seem to be going thru some sort of problem now.. think hafing a b/gf meanz alot.. itz not juz getting a person who u can turn to whenever u need to.. not juz hafing a person whom u noe u can depend on when u need to.. not juz hafing a person who loves u n whom u love.. lotz of other thingz are involved too.. somehow when u get a bf.. ur frenz start to think ull wan to spend all ur time wif ur bf.. when thatz not alwayz true... guess dey start to leave u alone wif good intentionz of letting u haf ur time wif him n to avoid being the 'extra' one.. but i dun feel that way... i dun lyk it when my frenz leave me juz coz hez around or sumthing lyk tt.. over the years ive learnt that these thingz happen alot.. n thatz wat comes wif hafing a bf.. i still haf lotz of frenz around me who still go out wif me whenever i can.. guess it makez alot of difference when ur frenz noez both u n ur bf.. :) thatz y i lyk going out wif both my frenz n him! but i think thatz kinda selfish n awkard when deu dunno each other.. o well.. ive learnt to accept that... itz up to me whether i can still spend lotz of time wif my frenz :) i can alwayz ask them out first ;)
another prob ive seen.. when u keep wanting to spend time wif ur guy but he seemz to be putting some other stuff above spending time wif u.. hey i noe thatz soundz so selfish but it happenz :) n i think itz onli right.. specially wif new relationshipz haha it took me some time to stop that mind set.. i noe i shld be more understanding towardz him n remember that he has his own activity frenz n work to do.. but den itz juz so hard to really do it.. it takez time but im sure u can do it :) ive done it
last thing.. when he keepzs saying that ur the most important n ur the one the one he loves the most but ure juz nto convince because he dun seem to be doing anything to show u that he really cares n u r really important to him.. another common problem.. haha think about it.. most guyz r not very good at showing that they care.. even though to a girl small thingz dey do meanz alot if dey actually do it.. haha but most of the time dey over look the importance n dun do it.. haha thatz the case wif him larh... but im starting to understand that too.. that wat is important to u might not be the same to him n vis vesa..
understanding n trust plays a bigbig part in a relationship.. these problemz haf affected me in some way or another in my relationship.. it takez time but they can be overcomed.. even noe.. there are still some thingz that im trying hard to understand n accept.. itz good to talk thingz out.. that usually works :) dun get too depressed over such thingz or watz the meaning of hafing a loving bf n a special relationship? :) cheer up guyz!

how do u noe when ur relationship is lasting due to love.. or overdependence...